No. 953:
Dagbladet and VG may write about Oslo police and
Torp's attack on me and the Heavenly blog!
Happy news!
Dagbladet and VG may write about Oslo police and
Torp's attack on me and the Heavenly blog, religious and free speech!
The so-called hate groups on Manglerud which in my
opinion sets over Norwegian law, belief and freedom of expression. And try to
interpret the Bible, but "Pastor" Torp help, it must go out in
spagat!
Photo of Propaganda Poster in North Korea. Everything
should look so alike, wonderful and great, but it is a tragedy! There is
diversity, otherness and the opportunity to express themselves without being
penalized for what is happiness for us humans! Unfortunately, it is out of this
disability Oslo police will try to lead us. It shows they fully to take me to
court to held out the truth! Of course it is my "objective" truth.
The right to have is really insulting and harassing to be deprived. Here know
the police not at all what faith. And freedom of speech is for something!
Police can not take their place as we live in North
Korea
As I see it, then cast on to a miscarriage of justice
for me and the Heavenly blog. All that I have written, spoken and said has been
against a "Pastor" that are not either live or teach in accordance
with God's word. And hear that it is harassment, is so far from the truth it is
possible to get. Glad Dagbladet and VG will write about this so that Norwegian
people as possible can get into the eyes of any police we face!
Brynjar Meling has been appointed as my defender, I'm
very excited!
When I do not have money he-he! Only prayer,
hallelujah!
This is taken from psychologist Jan Atle Andersen
- Decide not to be violated
What should we worry about?
- If I react negatively to what someone says to me,
then I am in fact a victim of my own reactions, I am not a victim of what you
say to me. My feelings are my responsibility, and if I let myself insult so
fail myself, says psychologist Jan Atle Andersen to echo on NRK P2.
He believes that if we meet a man who has bad manners,
so it is important that we take care of ourselves.
- It's simple but not easy. I think that too many
people are all too hårsåre and very robust, so they let themselves infringe and
provoke by what I would call trifles, says Andersen, who believe that we live
in offense era.
If people lie awake at night and can not bear to go to
work, they are victims of their own reactions, he said.
- We must realize that our own feelings, is just that.
They are our own. And my feelings are my responsibility. It is not you that
annoys me, it is I who annoys me, says Andersen.
The psychologist, who operates in conflict resolution
business, it we can safely call clearly. Although I have tried to live by a
motto to prioritize very carefully what I should worry about, something I even
think I have become quite good at. In most contexts.
Andersen challenges me to stretch myself anymore. I
still think he has a point when he says about the approach he argues, that
"it's simple, but not easy."
Final Comment:
All "problems" here lies in only one person,
it is Jan Aage Torp.
He has chosen to live in sin, and then be violated!
Allows you violate?
Written by Jan A. Andersen
First, a Socrates - anecdote: Socrates and a friend
met an acquaintance. Socrates greeted politely, but was arrogant overlooked by
the other. Socrates friend was upset over the abusive behavior: "It's
terrible when he offends you in this way." Whereupon the sage remarked:
"It's not me against me is more polite than him." He took
responsibility for their own reactions, and refused to be infringing. He took
responsibility for themselves.
Muslims seem to violate a Danish cartoonist, and stuck
flags and embassies on fire. It is to give a small Danish too much power! They
could always "taken a Socrates".
But in this sense we are Muslim head ale together; We
allow ourselves to violate the minutiae. "He called me a sow," is the
nothing to be offended. Better to "take a Socrates". Willy Haugli
understood that "I'm very picky regarding who I let offend me." Hanna
Kvanmo also understood; "I prioritize carefully until I'm angry."
Some allow themselves violate easier than others. Word
thus has the power that the receiver does. (Please read the statement in front
again). Whoever has power over my feelings, have power over me. The power I
will not give up.
My feelings are just that - mine. They are not created
for others. They are not something that only happens to me. They are something
I do. I rejoice, and be happy. I'm angry and get angry. I have unrealistic
expectations and disappoint me.
It is not you that annoys me, but I. "You
irritate me" is a projection - A reality distortion at 180 degrees. I blame
you something I do. I'm a little crazy. But when all is wrong, then no one is
noticing.
We influence each other, but are responsible for their
own reactions. My feelings are not just my responsibility to meet with friendly
people. They are also my responsibility when I meet someone who wants to offend
me.
Allows you violate? The acting infringing makes even
an abusive man. It is a self-harm. His problem! If you react as he wants, and
allows you to violate, as do his problem to yours. Do not worry. You can
"take a Socrates". If you react as he wants, so rewards you his
behavior, and have probably continue with their profanity. This is the victim's
contribution to conflict: He responds that bully will.
Words are not dangerous. They can not hurt, kill or
crush. Only "sore", "kill" and "crush". The
quotation marks are important here! To believe that words can hurt, crush, stab
etc are renheklet wodoo and casting spells that the vast majority (over) -
believe. You do not have butterflies in my stomach, just "butterflies in
the stomach". But all is wrong, and no one laughs.
If you try to offend me, and I let it happen, then it
is I who violate me. I take no responsibility for your own feelings. "I
violate me." It is the responsibility language. It is to call a spade a
spade. It is my responsibility to take care of me. If I entrust this
responsibility to others, betraying myself, I make myself a victim, and becomes
dependent on tølperne pull themselves together. Betrayal is supported by parent
and school and anti - bullying campaigns in vain trying to get the better of
bullies, instead of learning how to take care of ourselves. Expressing support
and sympathy with the victim is a disservice worse than any verbal harassment.
He pickled into victimhood and do not come out of it before tølperen pull
themselves together. He does not.
"Take care of yourself," said Socrates. If
you treat me foul, then an important, I have learned to take responsibility for
myself. I do this when I take responsibility for your own feelings and not let
me offend. Soren Kierkegaard, from memory: "If someone tries to offend me,
it's not a matter between him and me; It is an issue between me and me. I'll
let me offend or not? "
How did it go so wrong? What got us into blaming
others for our own feelings? It seems fairly obvious: We are brainwashed by
parents from day one: "If you are naughty, then mommy sad (and Dad angry).
How instilled children to believe that they are responsible for their parents'
feelings. Meanwhile manipulates we child to guilt: "Now I am tired /
disappointed / angry etc. And it's your fault. "The guilt can sit in for
life. Hersketeknikk at its most cunning.
A boy who is subjected to such brainwashing can easily
pull a fateful conclusion; If I have responsibility for others' feelings, so I
suppose I have someone take responsibility for mine. 20 years later mistreat
his sambo because he "provoked". How we do our sons to violent men.
Violent men do not take responsibility for their violence. They blame it on
others or on their mettle. Whoever does not take responsibility for their
feelings, giving violent people the best virtuous mental support and excuse.
Some lacks manners and makes life miserable for their
surroundings. But this is not the real problem. The big problem is that so many
disclaims responsibility for their own feelings, thus becoming so hårsåre, they
crackled for a good (or bad) word. Many possible insult for trifles. They are
offended until gusto with all the rights this entails: Self-pity, compassion,
self-righteousness and sick leave. But Pouting is not approved basis to report
sick.
This is a public education task of enormous
dimensions: learning that words are not dangerous, and that their own feelings
are your own responsibility. That there is "insulting words", only
people who allow themselves to violate.
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