Nr. 529: How to care for mother's role and be a good role model!?

Nr. 529:

How to care for mother's role and be a good role model!?

Here is my mother who lives today and the next year 70. She is half Norwegian and half Dutchman, when her father was from Rotterdam in Holland. He came to Norway during the war, but was unfortunately refused further residence in Norway and traveled abroad when my mother was 4 years. Such things are a stain on the history of Norway after the war. Even here in Norway than making big mistakes against its citizens who are directly damaging and harmful.

Ephesians 6:2 Honour thy father and thy mother - this is the first commandment with promise.

I could have written so much about motherhood, and it can be amplified in so many ways. Want to set up ten (10) pages of motherhood that I consider very important.

1) A good mother is NO. 2 in the family and submit to the man. I know this can be misunderstood and seen to be old-fashioned, etc. But I think a woman is happiest being that woman. Just as a man is happiest and best suited to be a man. It is not a matter of being over another, but to fulfill its role and where appropriate.

1 Cor. 11th 3 But I want you to know that Christ is every man's master, and the husband is the master, and God is his master. 7 For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of man. 8 For man is not from woman, but woman from man; 9 Neither was the man not created for woman, but woman for the man.

We see that we as a gender are interrelated where we complement and complete each other!

2) Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their husband or children? I think that she will always put the man first, but a good man put her higher than himself. Therefore, "winning" love always!

Therefore, point No. 2 A good wife is so full of love.

3) A mother is responsible for the nurture of their children. A good mother is therefore a good and reliable caregiver. To nurture is to have time for others, not least his own.


Word. 31, 10 A good wife - who can find her? Far more than the pearls she's worth. 11 Her husband's heart liters at her and profit shortage there. 12 She does him good and not evil all the days of his life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and her hands working with light. 14 She is like a kjøbmanns ship, she gets her bread from afar. 15 She gets up while it is yet night, and gives his household bread and their bridesmaids their work for the day. 16 She thinks of a mark and get it, because she earns with her hands she plants a vineyard. 17 She girded up his loins with strength and makes her arms strong. 18 She makes sure it goes well with her work, and her lamp does not go out at night. 19 She lays her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. 20 She opens her hand to the needy and stretches out her hands to the needy. 21 She fears not the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet wool. 22 She makes herself carpets, fine linen and purple are her clothing. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, where he sits with the oldest. 24 She makes garments and sells them, and supplies belts she kjøbmannen. 25 Strength and honor are her garment, and she shall rejoice in time. 26 She's open his mouth with wisdom, and the law of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She keeps an eye on how things go in her household, and eateth bread laziness she does not. 28 Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband stands up and praises her: 29 There are many capable women, but you surpass them all. 30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her the fruit of her labor, and her works will praise her in the gates.

5) Word. 31, 11a heart of her husband rely on her.

A man who is out all day and work, trust his wife that she did not invite other men in, to share the bed. There are plenty of them that have good days and can give much attention enough to fool even the best here if one is not careful. Therefore to be able to rely on his wife, it is the alpha and omega!

6) Word. 31, 13.b her hands working with light.

A good mother is hardworking, a good father. Just read here from the book of Proverbs and collect and take into account the fact.

7) Word. 31, 20 She opens her hand to the needy and stretches out her hands to the needy

We see that for a good mother and a woman is caring role great. It is not only the husband and children, but also to those with no past who can not do so well. A woman has a big heart, and do not always think so constructive and comprehensive as the man when it's people and those who need help at the center.

8) Word. 31, 30.b a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

She fears the Lord and put him in first place. Can it get any better than this? No, seen the Lord in front of all and it will go well!

9) A good mother lets her husband also have the opportunity to express themselves, go into a mission and ministry as he wants. There are times in one's life where one must also have the opportunity to prioritize things. Particularly if the education, employment or completing a call and a deed.

10) A good mother "worship" is also itself a bit. Appreciate themselves and their hobbies. It is healthy to have interests in life. And not only allow others to "give" you something, but also to do something yourself and be the enrichment that way.

Final comment:

Of course I have a lot to say. But something I've learned recently is that too many people are very selfish in its report that creates many problems. There is always one who will get covered my needs etc. Yes, it's important. But is not it also important that even covers the needs of others and puts others above themselves? LO leader believed that there are many women who hide behind the maternal role. As I see it, is a woman who follows the Lord and faith against her husband, the happiest wife and mother. And as a man who is faithful and follow the Lord!

Related links: http://the-heavenly-blog.janchristensen.net/2013/06/nr-528-how-to-care-for-fathers-role-and.html http://the-heavenly-blog.janchristensen.net/2011/12/nr-161-i-can-not-help-you-but-god-can.html, http://the-heavenly-blog.janchristensen.net/2012/02/nr-236-facts-about-restoration-of.html http://the-heavenly-blog.janchristensen.net/2013/06/nr-524-how-to-find-right-to-marry-what.html http://janchristensen.net/index2.php?side=video