Today's unbiblical preaching and attitudes of the faithful have " blamed " for this heart raw practice to allow remarriage while the first spouse is alive!
In many ways, it's Emanuel Minos and today's preachers and leaders as the main blame lies with regard to the flood of remarriage as practiced among believers , especially among the Free Church
I was married and my ex-spouse has found himself a new one, what does the word of God? He slammed both me and the new wife knocked up and we have siblings then.
Thanks in advance
I and my wife were touched when we read your SMS
What you and your child have been through you are sadly not alone who has gone through. But what does God's word? And what is right , healthy and biblical here? As I see it , it's primarily two that are " innocent " here .
It is first and foremost son here , or kid . Let me say it as clearly as possible , children are always innocent what older people do and care for the condition. So it's very important fact that most are trying to protect children from things , though it can also be difficult. he asks tells me that he has added things to heart , it is not good to hear. It's like wanting to take him on a good vacation so he can forget about the things adults , not him as a child.
The spurned here is the wife who has been deserted by her husband. I do not know if one can always tell the innocent and the guilty party , when God's word is very clear to believers only two outcomes regarding divorce and possibly a new relationship. That 's new relationship is sin anyway while the first spouse lives . Therefore, we as believers either reconciled or live solitary after a breakup, according to scripture.
1 Cor. 7 10 The married I command , yet not I, but the Lord , that a wife should not separate herself from her husband ; 11 but divorced him when she abide, being unmarried or be reconciled herself with her husband - and that a man shall put away his wife.
Who then is the " culprit " here ? I think there are three " culprit " here .
1 ) The husband marries again contrary to the word of God while the first spouse lives .
Rooms . 7 2 For the married woman is bound by law to her husband so long as he is alive, but if her husband be dead , she is loosed from the law of her husband . 3 Therefore she is called an adulteress if she , while her husband lives , marries another man : but if her husband dies, she is free from that law , so she is not an adulteress if she marries another man.
2 ) The person who marries a divorced are also guilty and sharing sin with her husband who is not allowed to marry. And whoever marries a divorced , comes under the same judgment and are living in sin according to Scripture .
Luke 16 18 Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery , and whoever marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery .
3 ) The current church leaders and preachers also to blame for this as not holding up God's word and share it both indirectly and directly.
James 3 1 My brothers ! not many of you become teachers , seeing ye know that we will also heavier judgment!
Final comment :
Even if your ex-husband has started a new relationship and had children . So he lives really in a cohabiting relationship and then in sin according to Scripture . He can remarry thousand times , but according to the same font , you're bound to each other as long as you live .
Why practice than not this today ?
There are many answers and opinions about. But for me , and as ministers of the Word and preach so I can not give any other advice than what scripture says .
Of course it is sad that he has new children with his partner , but this is really " whore kids ' unfortunately! You know it's strong words , but this is what Scripture says . It is the son he had with you as his "right" children that are born in a valid marriage . The other kids is like saying " whore kids " when he is not allowed according to scripture to start a new relationship .
What should you do and that's been scorned do?
I know of nothing else than to continue to seek the living God. Do good and right , and try as best as practicable , to live just clean although it is of course difficult in such a situation . But that is why God has given us His Spirit so we should be able to follow God's word.
Ezekiel 36 25 And I will sprinkle clean water upon you , and ye shall be clean : from all your filthiness and from all your idols, will I cleanse you. 26 I will give you a new heart and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh . 27 My spirit will I put within you: and I will make in my statutes and keep My judgments and do them.
Your former spouse , his new roommate and current church leaders are heart raw . They do not have a heart of flesh , but a stone heart.
Therefore, as such things are accepted and widely accepted me scripture says the following :
Matt . 24 12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love will grow cold most . 13 But he who endures to the end shall be saved.
Scripture says that " iniquity shall abound, the love will grow cold most ."
This takes place among professed believers , then it is at least twice as bad. But Scripture says also: "he who endures to the end shall be saved." This will be everyone's comfort and hopefully , it pays to follow the word of God when the accounts are to be settled for our lives!
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